Tips to have better Sex

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    Hit the bathroom before you hit the bedroom

    Most women know they should go to the bathroom after sex to avoid a painful urinary-tract infection, but many doctors say relieving your bladder before you have sex is just as important. When old urine is sitting in your bladder, it increases the chance that bacteria will multiply. Start with a clean bladder, and if you are prone to bladder infections, urinate again within an hour after sex.

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    BYOC (bring your own condoms)

    This should go without saying, but never depend on your partner to carry protection. You don’t want to start getting busy only to find out you need to stop and head to the drugstore. Besides,by providing your own, you can pick out the kind you like best. He may not think to buy the “extra-sensation- for-her type”, but you will

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    Take notice of your hands and nails

    We’ve never heard a guy complain that the polish on our fingers didn’t match the polish on our toes. Jagged edges of your nails near his penis will most likely hurt and make him head to the door. Make sure to use lotion, too, so your hands will feel insanely soft against his skin

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    Turn off your phone

    When things start getting steamy, you probably won’t remember to put your phone on vibrate (other things, maybe, but not your phone), so put it on mute before the kissing begins. Most men would be almost as likely to lose motivation in the middle of intercourse if a woman answered the phone like if she called out another man’s name.

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    Wear a sexy perfume

    If you smell sweet, he’s going to want to get closer. Just keep in mind the kind of scents that turn your man on and off and don’t over-apply. Your fragrance shouldn’t enter the room before you do.

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    Talk to him

    Let there be communication during sex. Moaning and groaning is cool, but dirty talk is fun for both parties, and typically you ends up getting more of what you actually want in the bedroom when you can be vocal about it in a playful way.

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    The art of undressing

    The art of undressing a person is in itself a type of foreplay. Some guys appreciate the slow teasing while some just want to tear your clothes off. Needleless to say, figure out which one works best for both of you.

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    Take off your jewelry

    That gorgeous necklace you’ve got, when you move into the bedroom, it can be a painful liability. Try to slip off large necklaces, big rings and long earrings when you have a second to avoid breaking your jewelry or chipping his teeth (or other important body parts) with your gems.

  • 9

    Exfoliate all over (including your butt)

    While you’re in the shower primping your hot bod, don’t forget to use an exfoliating sponge or puff to get the often overlooked erogenous zones including your elbows, knees and bum to make them smooth to touch

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    Bring a hair tie

    There is nothing sexy about your hair getting in your way. Keep a hair tie (band) around your wrist so you can quickly pull back those strands that keep ending up in your mouth or his mouth.

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    Buy a pair of sexy undies

    Special lacy underwear will give you a confident swagger that your partner won’t be able to resist.

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    Foreplay: Take your time.

    If your partner is not thoroughly turned on, the sex won’t be good for anyone. In fact it might hurt both of you. Just be in the moment and enjoy all the fooling around the good stuff will come. Regardless of how long you have been together as a couple do not skip foreplay.

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    Talk about sex.

    Find out what she likes, tell her what you like. As time passes in a relationship, it’s easy to get into a rut and just go through the motions, rather than express what you really want (and need) in bed.

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    Change the Location

    Another way to add variety and improve sex life is to try someplace new. Do it in different places to experience a different energy, take it outdoors if you are overwhelmed with technology and want to get back your natural rhythm.

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    Let her take the lead.

    Men so often take the lead in bed. Sometimes, the key to better sex is letting her be in charge there she can control the angle, depth and speed. Allow your mate to initiate sexual pleasure on occasions, as well as letting her go on top.

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    Stop switching positions so often

    Constantly going from one position to the next one breaks the flow. It is ok to hit a few positions during the course of a good 30-minute, but you don’t have to run through all the pages of the kama-Sutra to show off your skills. Let her know if you are enjoying the present position you are in.

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    Abstain a bit.

    Abstinence is a surefire way to improve sex and make your next encounter with your partner even more exciting. Practice abstinence for a couple of days, a weekend, or a week.

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    Plan for Sex

    This may not sound that romantic, but it’s a great way to improve your sex life and satisfy your partner. Construct a plan for having sex, by setting aside time or arranging opportunities for sex is very important, especially for busy partners or those with children. Don’t let the frequency of sex dwindle due to fatigue or the inability to find the ‘right time.

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    Use touch even without sex.

    Even when you’re not having sex, you can still improve your sex life by using touch in an intimate, but not sexual, way. Touching is important, but doesn’t always mean sex. It is important to be intimate with your partner by touching her with love and affection, kiss her and don’t be afraid to allow her to reciprocate.

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    Practice self-care.

    Take good care of your penis. Penile injury is usually sustained when your partner is on top or when the penis buckles from missed penetration. If things are getting out of hand, ask your partner to ease up. If you suspect a penile fracture due to a perceived ‘pop’ followed by bruising, see your doctor immediately.

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    Try something new

    Dedicate at least one hour regularly to sex—and commit to always trying something new. Experiment with positions, locations, toys; Watch porn together; act out fantasies—whatever it takes to help you get away from “real” life and think only about each other’s bodies

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    Compliment her body.

    Want a foolproof way to drive her wild and ensure better sex? Find a particular feature, and tell her that she is the best in this class.

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    Tidy Up

    Create an environment that is stress-free and reduces as many external distractions as much as possible. Clean, turn off the TV, silence your phone, turn off the computer and even turn the clock away so you can’t see the time. This helps to release feel-good endorphins like dopamine, which motivates our pleasure and reward center in our brain.

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    Don't focus on your orgasm

    It’s not always about the orgasm. There is something inherently intimate to be touching your partner in different ways. Try exploring their body for your pleasure. Not that sex doesn’t evoke similar feelings, but it’s a different kind of feeling. The aforementioned activities can totally be followed by orgasm-filled sex, but just those activities can leave you satisfied.

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    Appreciate sex for sex's sake

    Talking about intimacy, sometimes before sex, is the right recipe. You want your partner to enjoy sex, not just endure it or take it as a duty. For men, it’s not only about dominating your woman, but ravishing her. Women, occasionally, try letting him ravish you.

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    Encourage fantasies

    Men want to share their fantasies but worry their wives will shame or judge them. They wish women would reveal their imaginings. First, and most important, promise not to judge the other; then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. When you are next intimate, pull one out. If you’re both comfortable, give it a shot.

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    Men like it when women talk

    Talking during sex stimulates more than the ears. Dirty talk, praising and instructive talks are great starts. As amusing as it may sound, a woman’s words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman gladiator in battle, even if he’s just a clerk at the most boring store.

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    Men enjoy the dance

    Men like a good quest; unfortunately, these days, there are so few. But romance earns that distinction. Women should allow men to court them; make them deserve your desire. Emotional intimacy is about closeness.

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    Men always need it, but not for the reason women think

    Men are accused of being sexually insatiable, but women should rethink this. Men see sex as a celebration. They wish women would take more of a pro-active approach to it. It’s easy to allow demands on our time and energy to rob us of the joy, pleasure and opportunity that sex affords us. On the long list of priorities, sex should not be on the bottom rung. If that doesn’t convince you, consider the health benefits: Orgasms release oxytocin, which has been called the “bonding hormone,” bringing couples closer together while it alleviates anxiety and stress, reduces blood pressure and promotes healing. Sex is good for both of you.